May 2013
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Anonymous asked: ok... no offense or anything but, 'color community'? it sounds like the same of a clique or something. I dunno. I'm not mad exactly, but the term is people of color.
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April 2013
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raebeeslovesblank asked: I'm really sorry to hear about the negative backlash you've gotten from some small minded people. There are so many misconceptions about dreadlocks- from whom they belong on to how they are taken care of. Honestly, I was first inspired by white women like you with wild manes of dreads and crazy colors to get my own locks started. <3
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Anonymous asked: Reading that post was just... wow. It's shameful that some people have nothing better to do than tear somebody with obvious good intentions down. I'm a black woman and I've never come across a white person with dreads and thought RACIST. That's just unreasonable. I think you and your dreads are absolutely beautiful and original. :)
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confronting avoidance
Since blogging on here it seems I have become a target for others. Maybe it is because I am so outspoken on that ugly I see the social justice group causing, maybe it is because I use my brain in debates and not ALL CAPS and swears. Maybe it is because even under the hate I still approach with love and respect.
Whatever the reason, the amount of hate mail, having haters send other haters to...
March 2013
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February 2013
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From my 9 year old Daughter...
“I speak for the children. I have lived to 2013 and I know that our country may get better, but I say that you should look to the children of all nations. We may not have lived as long as you, we may not be as smart, but the difference between us is that we do not see black or white, we do not see rich or poor, we see one race of people that need help, and people that can help other.
If...
January 2013
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December 2012
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Here Confides a Queen Dame: Let me tell you what I... →
iam-drugs:
thequeendame:
Let me tell you what I just learned.
So I made a general post asking anti-SJWs about what the fuck they stand for. And boy, did I get a lot of responses that department.
Anyway, this is what I learned in summary from the mouth of anti-SJWs themselves - responses taken from this post here: …
Pretty sure it’s more than “just being mean”. Sending death threats,...
How many parents will now look at a Christmas... →
wilwheaton:
All I can think right now is how many moms have Christmas present hidden all over their house and were told this morning that their child is dead. How many of them will now look at a Christmas tree, knowing their child will not be there on Christmas morning to open the presents lovingly purchased and wrapped and hidden? How many of these parents struggled for years to get pregnant,...
le mot juste: For Dreadgoddess →
theinnocenceleft:
I just followed you, so tumblr won’t let me send fan mail. Here is my response to the lovely bit of mail you sent me.
Thank you, so much, darlin’. I appreciate the appreciation.
If you ever forget that your dreads are not, in any way, racist:
Hair is not culture nor is the style it is in. The…
It is so nice to see/meet sane people on tumblr who aren’t just...
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Art Locs Give-A-Way!!!
My Art Locs page has hit 2,000 likes! Wow!!! Thank you all so much for your support! As a thanks you, I will be giving away an embellished heart art loc with added beads to the winner of this drawing. To enter into the drawing you can do three things. 1. Make sure you have liked the Art Loc page, that will get your name in once. 2. Share this photo on your page, that will get your name in...
Anonymous asked: Aren't you a bit too old to be on tumblr amongst teenagers just sitting there reposting pictures? I mean, surely someone your age and with children should be more mature and not acting like a teen?
Anonymous asked: What exactly do you like about dread locks? Would you not rather have normal natural smooth silky hair which looks good and feels good too?
Anonymous asked: are you a witch?
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Advice to my daughter
Don’t let the judgement of others make you feel ashamed of something you were so proud of.
Don’t let the ignorance of others make you project ignorance onto strangers.
Don’t let the triggers of others turn you into a weapon of your own destruction.
Don’t let the history of others decide your future.
Don’t let the wounds of others become your scars.
Don’t...
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Anonymous asked: How old are you
tastingmyimperfection asked: Can you adopt me? Please. Because you sound like a wonderful mother and your kids are, amazing.
social-darwin-awards asked: I like this blog.
porcelainrepairedwithglue asked: Heya! :D I just wanted to say, only a few minutes ago i found your blog and I already love it ^-^ Your and your daughter's dreads are fabulous, and your daughter's dreads look amazing braided! I'd love to dread my hair, but right now it isn't even to my shoulders and I'm not sure if short dreadlocks would suit me. And I was wondering, how did/do you dread your hair? xx
dangerouslytwisted asked: your daughter is adorable! keep rockin' the solid parenting, too. i love you guys :D
Anonymous asked: You and your daughter are stunning
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I will keep working to better the world, while...
tippytoedhippie asked you:
Hi there! Okay, thing #1: this isn’t supposed to be hateful, so please don’t be offended. <3 I think you might misunderstand what white privilege is. White privilege is what you have in this country where people of color are discriminated against and white people are favored (like in the job and housing markets). This is because other people are racist,...
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November 2012
59 posts
{{rape trigger warning!}}
andthenhefuckedme:
Sorry but this really doesn’t belong on the dreadlocks tags. Without a warning or a ‘read more’ at least. :|
@dreadgoddess, I really can’t figure out why you get some many ridiculous/bizarre asks. So much negativity gets thrown your way :/
triggeriffic text below + typing anon bullshit
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I put it in the dreadlocks tag for a few reasons. This question goes right...
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The Rape debate
Anonymous asked you:
What I got from your post in response to anonymous is you let your children do as they please. I am sure you do know that your child can express herself without wearing make-up. I am sure you know it is inappropriate . You are happy with being just their friend not their parent. You seem like you live in a fairy tale world. You do realize their are pedophiles who will pray...
